Leading in Limbo: Lessons on Patience and Waiting on God

Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.
3 min readJan 23, 2024
“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him” (Psalm 37:7 NLT)

Leadership often demands bold action, decisive steps, and a steady hand at the helm. Yet, the Biblical narrative paints another crucial picture of leadership: navigating uncertainty with patient trust in God’s timing. It’s a counterintuitive stance, challenging our instinct to control and manipulate, but within it lie invaluable lessons for both leading ourselves and others.

The Crucible of Waiting

Abraham, the father of faith, serves as a potent example. Promised descendants as numerous as the stars, he endured decades of childlessness (Genesis 15:5). His impatience led him to take matters into his own hands, birthing Ishmael through Hagar (Genesis 16:3). Yet, God’s promises stood firm, unfolding in Sarah’s miraculous conception of Isaac at long last (Genesis 21:2). Abraham’s journey teaches us that waiting is not passive indifference; it’s active trust and reliance on God’s timetable, even when it doesn’t align with ours.

Moses, commissioned to liberate Israel from Egypt, also grappled with the tension of waiting. Burning with passion for justice, he impulsively killed an Egyptian overseer, jeopardizing the mission (Exodus 2:11–14). Years of exile followed, during which Moses learned humility and dependence on God’s power. When he finally returned, empowered not by his own strength but by God’s, the liberation was far more profound and lasting (Exodus 3:1–15). This journey illustrates that true leadership flourishes not in frenetic action, but in patient preparation and surrender to God’s guidance.

Trusting the Process

Queen Esther, facing a potentially fatal decree against her people, could have taken a forceful approach. Instead, she chose obedience to God’s timing, fasting and seeking guidance before appealing to the king (Esther 4:16). As a result, the king’s heart was turned, and her people were saved. Esther’s leadership reminds us that patience allows God to work through us, orchestrating circumstances and hearts in ways we cannot.

The Apostle Paul, a tireless missionary, also experienced the refining crucible of waiting. Imprisoned and unable to directly spread the gospel, he used the time to write profound epistles, shaping Christian theology for generations (Ephesians 6:20). Paul’s story challenges us to find purpose and productivity even in seemingly stagnant seasons, trusting that God is using us in unseen ways.

These Biblical narratives offer crucial leadership lessons on embracing patience and waiting on God:

  • Humility: Recognize that leadership is not about personal control but about partnering with God’s grander plan.
  • Faith: Trust that God’s timing, though often different from our own, is perfect and will ultimately bring forth greater good.
  • Perspective: See waiting not as stagnation but as an opportunity for refinement, learning, and deeper dependence on God.
  • Action in Trust: While patiently waiting, remain responsive to God’s guidance and actively fulfill the tasks or roles placed before you, however small they may seem.
  • Hopeful Leadership: Inspire others to persevere through uncertainty, trusting that God will lead and prevail in the end.

Leading in limbo is not a sign of weakness, but a mark of true faith and leadership maturity. By embracing the lessons of patience and waiting from the Bible, we can navigate uncertainty with grace, wisdom, and a deep trust in God's perfect timing, leading ourselves and others with a hope that transcends the limitations of present circumstances.

Remember, “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him” (Psalm 37:7 NLT). In the stillness of waiting, God shapes us and unfolds His purposes, equipping us to be the leaders He needs in an ever-changing world.

References

The Holy Bible, NIV/NLT

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Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.
Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.

Written by Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.

Imre is completing his Ph.D. in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School and is looking forward to transitioning full-time into Academia & Ministry.

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