7 Leadership Principles on Conflict Resolution found in the Bible. Did you know?

Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.
2 min readDec 19, 2023
The Bible is a timeless source of wisdom, offering valuable lessons applicable to many aspects of life, including business leadership. Within its pages, we discover fundamental principles that can guide us in leading with integrity, compassion, and effectiveness.

From the Book. By the Book. What do we learn from the Holy Bible regarding conflict resolution in business? Let’s take a look!

Conflict management is a crucial skill that can benefit individuals in various aspects of life, including personal relationships and professional environments. As a source of wisdom and guidance, the Bible offers valuable lessons on conflict resolution and relationship management. In this post, we will explore seven lessons learned from the Bible about conflict management and provide references to support these insights.

  1. Address issues promptly: In Matthew 5:23–24, Jesus teaches that if someone has a problem with another person, they should resolve it before offering a gift to God. This emphasizes addressing conflicts and misunderstandings immediately rather than allowing them to fester and grow.
  2. Listen carefully and seek to understand: James 1:19 advises us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. This principle is essential in conflict management, as it encourages us to listen to others’ perspectives and understand their concerns before responding.
  3. Practice humility and forgiveness: In Ephesians 4:31–32, we are encouraged to get rid of bitterness, anger, and harsh words and instead be kind, compassionate, and forgiving. This teaches us that a humble and forgiving attitude is key to resolving conflicts and maintaining healthy relationships.
  4. Seek wise counsel: Proverbs 15:22 says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed.” This verse highlights the importance of seeking advice from trusted and wise individuals when dealing with conflicts.
  5. Be patient and persistent: In Matthew 18:15–17, Jesus provides a step-by-step process for resolving conflicts within the church. This passage emphasizes the need for patience and persistence when working through disagreements and the importance of involving other individuals if necessary.
  6. Control your emotions: Proverbs 15:18 states, “A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.” This verse teaches us the importance of controlling our emotions during conflicts, as it can help prevent further escalation and promote resolution.
  7. Strive for unity and reconciliation: In Romans 12:18, we are encouraged to “Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.” This verse emphasizes the importance of working towards unity and reconciliation in our relationships, even when it may be difficult.

The Bible provides valuable lessons on conflict management that can help us navigate challenging situations and maintain healthy relationships. By incorporating these principles into our lives, we can better handle conflicts and promote harmony in our personal and professional relationships. Next time you find yourself in a conflict, read the Bible to remember these seven lessons. God bless you.

References

The Holy Bible, New International Version (NIV)

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Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.
Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.

Written by Imre Szenttornyay, M.Sc.

Imre is completing his Ph.D. in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School and is looking forward to transitioning full-time into Academia & Ministry.